Catholic Pre-Planned Funeral Services

Catholic Funeral Pre-Planning

Honor your faith and provide peace of mind for your family.

Pre-planning a Catholic funeral allows you to ensure that your final arrangements honor your faith while relieving your loved ones of difficult decisions during their time of grief. At Brooklyn Funeral Home & Cremation Service, we understand the importance of Catholic traditions and rituals in the funeral process and can help you create a plan that respects these sacred customs.

Our compassionate staff works closely with local Catholic parishes to ensure that all elements of your funeral plan align with Catholic teachings and traditions. By pre-planning your Catholic funeral, you provide your family with the comfort of knowing your wishes will be carried out in accordance with your faith.

Elements of a Catholic Funeral

A traditional Catholic funeral typically includes several key elements that honor the faith journey of the deceased.

Vigil Service

Vigil Service (Wake)

The vigil service, commonly known as a wake or rosary service, is typically held the evening before the funeral Mass. This is a time for family and friends to gather, pray, and share memories of the deceased.

Elements of the vigil service include:

  • Gathering of family and friends
  • Scripture readings and prayers
  • Recitation of the Rosary
  • Sharing of memories and eulogies
  • Viewing of the deceased (optional)
Funeral Mass

Funeral Mass

The Funeral Mass is the central liturgical celebration for the deceased. It is a sacred ceremony that focuses on the promise of resurrection and eternal life through Christ. The Mass is typically held at the parish church of the deceased.

Elements of the Funeral Mass include:

  • Reception of the body at the church
  • Liturgy of the Word with scripture readings
  • Homily by the priest
  • Liturgy of the Eucharist
  • Final Commendation and Farewell
  • Incensing and blessing of the casket
Rite of Committal

Rite of Committal

The Rite of Committal is the final ceremony in the Catholic funeral process. It takes place at the cemetery or mausoleum and includes the blessing of the grave or niche, prayers, and the final farewell.

Elements of the Rite of Committal include:

  • Procession to the place of committal
  • Scripture verse and brief reflection
  • Prayer over the place of committal
  • Committal prayer
  • Prayers for the deceased and mourners
  • Final blessing

Catholic Burial Options

The Catholic Church allows for several burial options while maintaining respect for the body as a temple of the Holy Spirit.

Traditional Burial

Traditional Burial

Traditional burial in consecrated ground has long been the preferred option in Catholic tradition. This involves interment of the body in a Catholic cemetery or in the Catholic section of a community cemetery.

The Church teaches that the body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and should be treated with respect and dignity, which is reflected in the traditional burial process.

Mausoleum Entombment

Mausoleum Entombment

Entombment in a mausoleum is an accepted Catholic burial option. A mausoleum is an above-ground structure designed for the entombment of the deceased in crypts or compartments.

Many Catholic cemeteries offer mausoleum options, providing a clean, dry, and dignified resting place that allows for year-round visitation regardless of weather conditions.

Cremation with Burial

Cremation with Burial

Since 1963, the Catholic Church has permitted cremation as long as it is not chosen for reasons contrary to Christian teaching. However, the Church strongly prefers that cremated remains be buried or entombed rather than scattered or kept at home.

The cremated remains should be treated with the same respect as the body, including the use of a worthy vessel for burial or entombment in a cemetery or columbarium.

Our funeral directors can help you understand these options and choose the one that best aligns with your faith and personal preferences.

The Catholic Funeral Pre-Planning Process

Our simple process helps you create a meaningful Catholic funeral plan that honors your faith and provides peace of mind.

1

Initial Consultation

Meet with one of our experienced funeral directors to discuss your wishes, preferences, and Catholic faith traditions. We'll explain the various options available and answer any questions you may have about Catholic funeral customs and requirements.

2

Parish Coordination

We'll help you connect with your parish to discuss specific requirements and preferences for the Funeral Mass. This may include selecting readings, music, and other liturgical elements that are meaningful to you and align with Catholic traditions.

3

Documentation of Wishes

We'll document all your preferences, including details for the vigil service, Funeral Mass, and committal service. This includes your choices for readings, music, pallbearers, and any personal touches you wish to include within the framework of Catholic traditions.

4

Selection of Products and Services

Choose the products and services you desire, such as a casket or urn, burial location, memorial items, and transportation arrangements. We offer a range of options that respect Catholic traditions while accommodating various budgets.

5

Funding Options (Optional)

Discuss options for pre-funding your funeral arrangements if desired. Pre-funding can protect against inflation and ensure that financial resources are available when needed, relieving your family of this burden during their time of grief.

6

Sharing Your Plan

Receive copies of your pre-planning documents to share with family members and your parish. We recommend informing loved ones about your arrangements and keeping a copy with your important papers to ensure your wishes are known and followed.

Common Catholic Funeral Readings

The following scripture passages are commonly used in Catholic funeral services and can be included in your pre-planning.

Old Testament Readings

  • Wisdom 3:1-9

    "The souls of the just are in the hand of God, and no torment shall touch them..."

  • Isaiah 25:6a, 7-9

    "On this mountain the Lord of hosts will provide for all peoples..."

  • Lamentations 3:17-26

    "My soul is deprived of peace, I have forgotten what happiness is..."

  • Job 19:1, 23-27a

    "Oh, would that my words were written down! Would that they were inscribed in a record..."

New Testament Readings

  • Romans 5:5-11

    "Hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts..."

  • Romans 8:14-23

    "Those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God..."

  • 1 Corinthians 15:20-28

    "Christ has been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep..."

  • Revelation 21:1-5a, 6b-7

    "I saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former heaven and the former earth had passed away..."

Gospel Readings

  • Matthew 5:1-12a

    "When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain, and after he had sat down, his disciples came to him..."

  • John 6:37-40

    "Everything that the Father gives me will come to me, and I will not reject anyone who comes to me..."

  • John 11:21-27

    "Martha said to Jesus, 'Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died...'"

  • John 14:1-6

    "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me..."

Psalms

  • Psalm 23

    "The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want..."

  • Psalm 25

    "To you, O Lord, I lift my soul..."

  • Psalm 27

    "The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom should I fear?..."

  • Psalm 103

    "Bless the Lord, O my soul; and all my being, bless his holy name..."

These are just a selection of the readings available for Catholic funeral services. Our funeral directors can provide a complete list and help you select readings that are meaningful to you and your family.

Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to common questions about Catholic funeral pre-planning.

Yes, the Catholic Church has permitted cremation since 1963, as long as it is not chosen for reasons contrary to Christian teaching. However, the Church strongly prefers that the body be present for the Funeral Mass, with cremation taking place afterward. The cremated remains should be buried or entombed in a cemetery or columbarium, not scattered or kept at home, as the Church teaches that the cremated remains should be treated with the same respect as the body.

Yes, within the framework of Catholic funeral traditions, there are many opportunities for personalization. You can select specific readings, music, and prayers that have special meaning to you. You may also include personal touches such as memorial displays, photo slideshows at the vigil service, and personalized memorial cards. Our funeral directors can work with you and your parish to ensure that your personal preferences are incorporated while maintaining the integrity of Catholic funeral traditions.

Generally, Catholic funeral rites are reserved for baptized Catholics who are in communion with the Church. However, exceptions can be made in certain circumstances. If you were baptized Catholic but have not been actively practicing, you can still receive a Catholic funeral. In some cases, non-Catholic Christians may also receive Catholic funeral rites if they had expressed a desire for them and if there is no minister of their own faith available. It's best to discuss your specific situation with your parish priest or our funeral directors who can provide guidance based on current Church guidelines.

We can help facilitate communication with your parish as part of the pre-planning process. Many parishes have specific guidelines for funeral liturgies, including approved music selections and readings. Some parishes also maintain records of parishioners' funeral preferences. We recommend scheduling a meeting with your parish priest or the parish's bereavement coordinator to discuss your wishes and ensure they align with parish guidelines. Our funeral directors can attend this meeting with you if desired to help address any questions about the coordination between the funeral home and the church.

If you wish to be buried in a Catholic cemetery but don't live near one, there are several options. Many community cemeteries have designated Catholic sections that are blessed and maintained according to Catholic traditions. Alternatively, arrangements can be made for transportation to a Catholic cemetery in another location. If burial in a non-Catholic cemetery is necessary, the grave can be blessed by a priest at the time of burial. Our funeral directors can help you explore these options and make arrangements that honor your wishes while respecting Catholic burial traditions.

Ready to Begin Your Catholic Funeral Pre-Planning?

Our compassionate team is here to help you create a plan that honors your faith and provides peace of mind for your family.